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My experience was similar.

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Orangecat69's avatar

Wow, your experience really resonated with me. I married young to someone a bit older and the coercive control started right after moving out of state to be with him. After 27 years and 2 wonderful kids, I left. I just had an epiphany one day while driving in the car with him and being lectured once again for breaking a rule I didn’t even know about. I thought “wouldn’t it be great if I didn’t have to feel this constant dread and worry.” I had never thought about divorce before but as soon as it entered my mind, I felt more free than I had in a long time. I still have moments where I find myself stressed about certain situations and have to calm myself and remember that I make my own decisions now and I’m okay. Good luck to you on your journey.

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